A house is not a home without love in it. -Courtney Graf

On April 24, 2025 we will gather for a special night of awareness, remembrance and the pain of injustice. Just a week before I enter a domestic violence felony trial of the state vs my ex, we will gather for a pep rally of Regardless. Regardless of the jury verdict, I know what I will not allow again. Regardless of the fear, I will raise my voice. Regardless of the clarity, I know my truth.

My intention at this event is to give voice to those who couldn't find the strength to share. To speak for those who are still falling victim to silence, manipulation and fear. To raise the spotlight on the most painful events that have occurred in my life and make clear that I too never thought I would end up here. And, to raise money for the many domestic violence organizations that supported me through the healing process. May another seeking soul, who found the courage to leave, receive this profound and necessary support.

Domestic violence does not make itself known all at once. It creeps into moments that leave you gutted wondering... did he mean to do that? Was that my fault? Maybe I could have xyz... but I love him... while there is absolutely no excuse for anyone to ever wrap their hands around your neck. So, 9 months later I found myself reporting him to the police in panic that he would actually kill me; with a folder of my bruised images. While I begged them not to arrest him. Confusing, I know!

Safety is our birth right. Fostering that for ourselves is our responsibility.

In the music video to "When I Leave You", I am wearing the wedding dress from my wedding night in which I hit the pavement at 80mph before the motorcycle flew off a cliff. I chose someone who could not keep me safe because he wasn't safe within himself. These choices are the real thorn to pull. In most cases, these thorns are birthed in childhood. What we allow says more about the inner violence we receive without awareness. What story does your inner voice cling to?

Loving yourself is the first step to never finding yourself in a similar story. May this night remind you of the sacred bond between you and your higher self, the self respect you deserve to demand and the Power you hold.  

"When I Leave You" Out Everywhere NOW

SHOW FLOW:

6pm Doors & Vendors

Katy Marie Breath Work

Morgana the Music Original Music Performance

Peace House DV Informational

Courtney Graf Original Music Performance

Come for the community. Come for the connection. Come for the cause.

For more information check out: https://www.courtneygraf.com/domesticviolencefundraiser